This year really boring birthday for me..... nothing special......
Ithayum kadanthe povom...... (Vettri Kuri)
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Friday, August 10, 2012
Krishna Jayanthi 2012
Monday, July 2, 2012
Happy Birthday Sweetheart
For my special friend on her special day: may you have many more blessings than you've ever wished for! Happy Birthday gal
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Oranges and Grapes
A
teacher asked Eight year old Student, “If I give you one orange and one orange
and
one
orange , how many oranges will you have?” Within a few seconds Student replied
confidently, “Five!”
She was disappointed. “Maybe the child did not listen properly,” she thought. She repeated, “Student, listen carefully. If I give you one orange and one orange and one orange , how many oranges will you have?”
Student had seen the disappointment on his teacher’s face. He calculated again on his fingers. But within him he was also searching for the answer that will make the teacher happy. His search for the answer was not for the correct one, but the one that will make his teacher happy. This time hesitatingly he replied, “Five”
The disappointment stayed on the teacher’s face. She remembered that Student liked Grapes. She thought maybe he doesn’t like oranges and that is making him lose focus. This time with an exaggerated excitement and twinkling in her eyes she asked, “If I give you one Grape and one Grape and one Grape, then how many you will have?”
Seeing the teacher happy, Student calculated on his fingers again. She wanted her new approach to succeed. With a hesitating smile young Student inquired, “Three?”
The teacher now had a victorious smile. Her approach had finally succeeded. She wanted to congratulate herself. But one last thing remained. Once again she asked him, “Now if I give you one orange and one orange and one more orange how many will you have?”
confidently, “Five!”
She was disappointed. “Maybe the child did not listen properly,” she thought. She repeated, “Student, listen carefully. If I give you one orange and one orange and one orange , how many oranges will you have?”
Student had seen the disappointment on his teacher’s face. He calculated again on his fingers. But within him he was also searching for the answer that will make the teacher happy. His search for the answer was not for the correct one, but the one that will make his teacher happy. This time hesitatingly he replied, “Five”
The disappointment stayed on the teacher’s face. She remembered that Student liked Grapes. She thought maybe he doesn’t like oranges and that is making him lose focus. This time with an exaggerated excitement and twinkling in her eyes she asked, “If I give you one Grape and one Grape and one Grape, then how many you will have?”
Seeing the teacher happy, Student calculated on his fingers again. She wanted her new approach to succeed. With a hesitating smile young Student inquired, “Three?”
The teacher now had a victorious smile. Her approach had finally succeeded. She wanted to congratulate herself. But one last thing remained. Once again she asked him, “Now if I give you one orange and one orange and one more orange how many will you have?”
Student answered, “Five”
The teacher was frustrated and disappointed and thinking Student as idiot. She asked “How Student, how ?”
in a little dominating and irritated voice.
In a low and hesitating voice Student replied, “Because I already have two orange in my bag.”
So in End Student did teach you a lesson. What is it ?
When someone gives you an answer different from expected. There maybe an angel or a reason that you have not understood at all. You will have to listen and understand, but never listen with a predetermined or expected answer......
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Why We Shout In Anger ?
A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his smiled and asked.
'Why do people shout in anger shout in each other ?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'
'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you ? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint
Disciples gave some others answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained.
When two people angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover the great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love ? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very closed. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small......
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
He looked at his disciples and said.
So when you argue do not let your heart get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
'Why do people shout in anger shout in each other ?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'
'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you ? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint
Disciples gave some others answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained.
When two people angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover the great distance.
What happens when two people fall in love ? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very closed. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small......
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'
He looked at his disciples and said.
So when you argue do not let your heart get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Friday, February 24, 2012
Shasvin boy
Congrats to my sister, get deliver baby boy on 24-02-12 at 12.01am. Our new family member shasvin boy.
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
2012 Thaipusam
This year Thaipusam was really great. I am complete 48 days vege successfully, compare with last few years and this year got a lot different that i have more energy didn't feel tired on the day even tho i am busy since sunday with my sister vale kaapu function then monday working, tuesday wake up at 4am went to thaipusam with mother to take paal kudam, then back home around 10am, then went batu caves again for help vanitha shop there until 11pm. After that do archanai then back at 11.40pm, take bath then had my dinner at 1am haha. Thank god because still left energy to work at offfice the next day. Hope next year i can take vege for 48 days for Lord Murugan. This year my prayer was, wana settle my outstanding payment, repair my car, my sis get delivery safely, and together pray for next venduthal haha hard prayer and also hard venduthal.... parpom weather my prayer come true or not. It's all in God hand.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Happy New Year 2012
Happy New Year. Hope this year i am strong enough to face alot of thing. Last year was happy year and the same time sad year too. Good things is one of my dream come true which is vacation to chennai, Tamil Nadu and sad news is my 6411 breakdown.Hope this year not much sad things happen. God is always with me to make me strong and strong.... Murugan Thunai
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